Friday, February 09, 2024

Self Help Radio 020824: Valentine's Day 2024 - Falling In Love

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Almost a week early, here's this year's Self Help Radio Valentine's Day show - this year about falling in love. I seem to have a different idea of what "falling in love" means than many people - I always find I can love people easier than fall in love with them. I suspect I've only been in love maybe five or six times in my life. & usually those times are the same feelings I associate with falling in love in songs.

There is one possibly unromantic comment I make about falling in love in the show. I hope I can be forgiven for it. If you don't hear it, though, I am certainly not going to point you to it!

Listen to the show now or save it for Valentine's Day at the Self Help Radio web page. Use username SHR & password selfhelp to listen. Download the show! Put it on your phone or whatever! Everything that happens is mentioned below.

Happy Valentine's Day!

Self Help Radio Valentine's Day 2024 Show
"Absolutely Cuckoo" The Magnetic Fields _69 Love Songs_
"I'm Fallin' In Love" Ella Fitzgerald _Jukebox Ella: The Complete Verve Singles Volume 1_
"Guess I'm Falling In Love (live)" The Velvet Underground _Peel Slowly & See_

introduction & definitions

"Why Don't They Let Us Fall In Love" Veronica _Back To Mono (1958-1969)_
"Let's Do It (Let's Fall In Love)" Marvin Gaye & Kim Weston _Marvin Gaye & Kim Weston_
"Why Do Fools Fall in Love" Joni Mitchell _Shadows & Light_
"Falling In Love With Myself Again" Sparks _Kimono My House_
"Falling In Love (With Myself)" Ivy Green _Ivy Green_

interview with Kim Rayburn, who falls in love with everybody

"All I Wanna Do Is Fall In Love" Robyn Hitchcock _Black Snake Diamond Röle_
"Don't Fall In Love (Every Single Time)" The Delmonas _Delmonas 5!_
"Falling In Love Again" Klaus Nomi _Simple Man_
"Can't Help Falling In Love" Lick The Tins _Some Kind Of Wonderful_
"Somewhere Someone's Falling In Love" John Prine _Aimless Love_

our resident cinephile Chuck stops by!

"Falling In Love" Monomyth _Happy Pop Family_
"I Fall In Love (All Over Again)" The Forum _The River Is Wide_
"I Feel Like Falling In Love Again" The Fantastic Four _The Complete Motown Singles | Vol. 9: 1969_
"Falling" Julee Cruise _Floating Into The Night_

interview with Karl Rogers, who's only been in love once

"Falling In Love" The Jazz Butcher Conspiracy _Distressed Gentlefolk_
"I Wanna Fall In Love" BMX Bandits _Theme Park_
"The Falling In Love Part Is The Best Part Anyways" The Casino Ashtrays _Just Like Me EP_
"We Were Programmed To Fall In Love" Confusions _Grounds_

interview with Kris Rand, who has never been in love

"Fall In Love With Me" The House Of Love _Burn Down The World: The Fontana Years 1989-1993_
"Ever Fallen In Love" Nouvelle Vague _Bande À Part_
"Feels Like Falling In Love" The Arrogants _Nobody's Cool_
"Fallin' In Love" Lush _Black Spring EP_

conclusion & goodbye

"Let's Fall In Love" William Onyeabor _Who Is William Onyeabor?_
"I Just Want Someone To Fall In Love With" The Lovely Eggs _Wildlife_

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Unrequited love may be the most romantic of all. If something never was, it can therefore, always be. Nothing was ruined. Karl will be ok. Here's how his story might have ended: After a failed marriage, Karl's love finally realized he was everything she really wanted in a partner but had been too immature to know. They meet again, in their hometown, and dance on snow sparkling under a full moon. It's magic. They start seeing each other regularly, although long distance because they have homes and jobs in different cities. She has kids, some with problems. Come to think of it, she's actually a lot more frazzled and less of a carefree, fairy spirit now. In fact, she really looks and acts nothing like the muse of his past. Plus, she demands time for communication and connection but is never available when he needs to spend time as her life is a bit more hectic. He grows disappointed and disillusioned. He realizes he loved the thought of her more than the reality of her. He says goodbye. He returns to the fairytale of unrequited love and hopelessness, as this is indeed where he feels the deepest and his heart is most full.